<?xml version="1.0" encoding="gb2312"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[河北音乐广播《雕刻时光》－用音乐温暖记忆]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net]]></link><description><![CDATA[我的故事我的歌]]></description><language>zh_cn</language><managingEditor/><webMaster/><pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 06:51:36 CST</pubDate><lastBuildDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 06:51:36 CST</lastBuildDate><generator>http://blogteam.blog.inhe.net</generator><image><url>http://reg.blog.inhe.net/account/web/img/logo.gif</url><title>银河博客</title><link>http://blogteam.blog.inhe.net</link></image><item><title><![CDATA[睡到自然醒]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net/viewdiary.79426.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">上早班，每天起床都觉得很痛苦，有没有睡到自然醒的办法呢？看到一个小帖子不知道有用没有。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、定时</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一定听过每天定时上床睡觉非常重要，如果就是做不到，试试看每天定时起床，不消</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">6</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">个星期，实际的睡眠节奏就会与你的生理节奏相符，也别回去睡回笼觉，这样会让生理节奏更混乱，一旦睁开眼，不要犹豫就起床吧。就算周末也得保持这样的规律。如果每逢周末就通宵达旦，隔日再睡到中午，马上就会知道痛苦，星期一又要哀声连连地起床。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">2</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、阳光</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果早起对您而言，是不可能的任务，那就让阳光来帮助您。因为那些全光谱的阳光可以调节血清素</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">(serotonin)</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">和褪黑激素在血液中的浓度。当受到光线照射，血清素会使身体的代谢加快，当天晚上就会早点想睡，隔天也就会早点起床。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果没办法一早起床就去徜徉在阳光下，也可以拉开窗帘，让阳光照进来，或是准备一盏明灯，闹钟一响就打开。坚持下去，有一天您会发现，在闹钟响起前您就精神奕奕地起床。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、声音</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有没有发现您很容易随手按掉伴随多年的闹钟，因为大脑习惯忽视熟悉的声音，因此，可以准备两、三个闹钟轮流着用，或者浪漫一点用音乐叫醒您，因为音乐会促进脑中氧气与血液的流动，让身体也想律动起来。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">听什么音乐好？《活力充沛</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">24</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">小时》的作者南西．曼森建议，可以选类似莫扎特小提琴协奏曲的音乐；想要一早就精力充沛，可以选舞曲</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">4</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、深呼吸</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">起床后，深呼吸可以让身体踏出舒畅的一天。先缓缓地吸气，仿佛吸至头顶，再将所有的气吐出来，停两秒钟后，再做一次，可以让身体充满早晨新鲜的空气，一天也容易神采奕奕。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">5</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、水</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一起床后，马上就去找水喝，会让身体知道新的一天要开始了。而且人类在睡眠时间会发汗约一杯水的量，若前一晚喝了酒，更会让身体如同置身沙漠一般。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">6</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、香味</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">香味也会刺激脑部，提高知觉机能，赶走睡意和疲劳。所以有人一早煮咖啡，用咖啡香叫醒自己。如果您的阳台上种有香草植物，也可以在洗脸台上放满水后，摘一片薄荷浸泡水中，薄荷有促进血液循环的效果，此举也有益于皮肤。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">7</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、甜味</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一早起床总觉得晕头转向，因为经过一夜的消化，此时脑中毫无营养，脑部的能量来源就是葡萄糖，这时马上补充含有甜味的食物，如香蕉、苹果，马上会有效果。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">7</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">个小妙招，不知道管不管用，从明天开始拿出</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">2</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">样来试试，希望早起变得不再痛苦，呵呵</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">….. </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">受到同事战舰邀请，今天</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">上午</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">10</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">点钟到先天下购物广场做《听听车吧》的活动。见到很多可爱的听友！好开心！</SPAN></B></P>]]></description><category><![CDATA[默认栏目]]></category><author><![CDATA[莎莎]]></author><pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 09:11:24 CST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[寻找新鲜]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net/viewdiary.79425.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">新鲜其实只要一个概念。是一种自我发现。在忙碌的生活中更应该寻找新鲜的由头！有时候一篇有趣的文章、朋友转发的邮件、好吃的小店、塞车路上漫天的晚霞、创意的路边招牌。人其实是一个很善于发现新鲜概念的物种。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">昨天收拾自己的房间，在角落里发现了好多学生时代的玩具，被自己抱着睡觉的小熊，从前经常躺在它肚皮上看书的大狗狗。。。。突然思绪变得很从容，突然感觉从它们身上找到了很久之间的闲适心情，一种离自己远去了很久的心情。翻开小学时候的日记，真的很惊奇，小时候并不像想象的那么幼稚，写起东西来还真是有条有理。还看到小时候故作深沉写下的小诗，什么飘飞呀、零落的，肉麻的很，也许那是自己发掘自己感性精彩的开始吧。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">新鲜并不一定是新出现的事物才具有的特质。周围的事物每天都在重复新鲜的本质，因为我们也在变，观察生活的角度在变，所以眼里的它们也在不同着。</SPAN></B>]]></description><category><![CDATA[默认栏目]]></category><author><![CDATA[莎莎]]></author><pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 09:10:35 CST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[惯性，那不是幸福]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net/viewdiary.79424.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">总是在思考“改变”这个词的范围，生活是需要一些小小的改变，来让自己感觉个人的存在。麻木的一成不变真的很可怕。喜欢穿黑色，有一天换上一件粉色的衣服，突然感觉自己好新鲜；平时很少化浓妆，偶尔把自己的彩妆装备拿出来给自己一个精致的小彩妆，发现自己真的也是蛮漂亮的，呵呵。。。晚上十一点钟，也许已经有一点点的睡意，或者在上网，或者在看自己喜欢的电影，突然打开窗帘，发现原来自己从来不寂寞，有漂亮的万家灯火，有零星的星星眨着眼睛。生活从不缺乏美，只是缺乏发现美的眼睛，换个角度看世界，或者改变生活的某些惯性，让生物钟提前半小时，也许节奏就会给我们更多的惊喜。今天不知道我又有什么样的发现呢？</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>]]></description><category><![CDATA[默认栏目]]></category><author><![CDATA[莎莎]]></author><pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 09:10:12 CST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[照照片喽！]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net/viewdiary.79420.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">女孩子最好每年去照一张照片，给青春留个纪念，最近心情还凑合，所以就去照照片了。欢迎大家去参观照片哦！</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><A href="http://www.fm1024.net/djphoto/shasha/index.html"><SPAN style="COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">http://www.fm1024.net/djphoto/shasha/index.html</FONT></SPAN></A><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一直觉得照照片还是春天、夏天、秋天最好，我偏偏选了唯一不太舒服的冬天去拍。棚是新的，没有暖风，只有一个小太阳，穿着夏装，真的好冷。整整拍了一天的时间，回家就吃了感冒药。。。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">摄影师</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">Wang sir</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">是个很活泼的小男孩，很健谈，和他合作很开心！其实拍照的结果是次要的，重要的是每次拍照都能发现几个自己非常漂亮的角度。呵呵。。。。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>]]></description><category><![CDATA[默认栏目]]></category><author><![CDATA[莎莎]]></author><pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 09:09:26 CST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[给秋天些颜色]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net/viewdiary.74891.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN></FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">又到深秋了，还有半个月又要给暖气了。总觉得这是一年中最好的半个月。周围还有绿色，但这样的绿色成熟，而且含蓄。在绿色中蓦然会发现一些红、黄的色彩。秋天的馥郁与成熟会让人相信生命的周而复始是有必要的，也是充满希望的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如果说春天踏青是在寻找希望，那么秋天去郊外走一走就是在寻找心灵收获的踏实。仙台山的红叶又红了吧，该去一趟了，站在山巅，看山西的叶子绿着，河北的叶子红着，好像站在两个不同的空间，一眼看着两个不同的季节。生活中，有人感叹“高处不胜寒”，但在秋天那里的山巅，根本不会有那样患得患失的感觉，因为可以真实的感受到自己和季节一起在变化，那种变化不是谁能够让它停下脚步的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">从石家庄到平山的过道上已经有很多叶子变作了红色，如果你真的很怕爬山，也可以沿着国道走一趟，那里也有深秋的颜色。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">深秋了，那是绿色的尾声，但绝不是欣赏的尾声。深秋的颜色可以在头脑中被保留和自己一起过冬，冬眠的时候，脑子里回旋的全部都是深秋的色彩。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28.5pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></P>]]></description><category><![CDATA[默认栏目]]></category><author><![CDATA[莎莎]]></author><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 08:58:02 CST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[无题]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net/viewdiary.74890.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">生活里总是有些有心人，把平时说啰嗦一大堆的话，变得很精练，却意味深长。分享几则吧，记下</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">2</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">条，会派上用场的！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1.</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">2.</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、智慧的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">4</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果敌人让你生气，那说明你还没有胜他的把握</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">5</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果朋友让你生气，那说明你仍然在意他的友情</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">6</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、令狐冲说“有些事情本身我们无法控制，只好控制自己。”</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">7</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的，那些是错的，而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事，然后等待着老死</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、你出生的时候，你哭着，周围的人笑着；你逝去的时候，你笑着，而周围的人在哭！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">9</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">:</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">,</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">被惰性所消磨</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">10</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、《和平年代》里的话：当幻想和现实面对时，总是很痛苦的。要么你被痛苦击倒，要么你把痛苦踩在脚下</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">11</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、真正的爱情是不讲究热闹不讲究排场不讲究繁华更不讲究嚎头的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">121</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、生命中，不断地有人离开或进入。于是，看见的，看不见的；记住的，遗忘了。生命中，不断地有得到和失落。于是，看不见的，看见了；遗忘的，记住了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">然而，看不见的，是不是就等于不存在？记住的，是不是永远不会消失？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">13</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、我们确实活得艰难，一要承受种种外部的压力，更要面对自己内心的困惑。在苦苦挣扎中，如果有人向你投以理解的目光，你会感到一种生命的暖意，或许仅有短暂的一瞥，就足以使我感奋不已</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">14</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、我不去想是否能够成功</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">,</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">既然选择了远方</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">,</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">便只顾风雨兼程</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">; </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我不去想</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">,</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">,</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">既然目标是地平线</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">,</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">留给世界的只能是背影</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">15</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">.</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">后悔是比损失更大的损失</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">,</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">比错误更大的错误</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">.</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">所以不要后悔</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>]]></description><category><![CDATA[默认栏目]]></category><author><![CDATA[莎莎]]></author><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 08:57:42 CST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[对比的效果]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net/viewdiary.74889.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">某大型的日用品公司引进了一条香皂包装生产线，结果发现这条生产线有个缺陷：常常会有盒子里没装入香皂。总不能把空盒子卖给顾客啊，他们只好请了一个学自动化的博士后设计一个方案来分拣空的香皂盒。博士后拉起了一个十几人的科研攻关小组，综合采用了机械、微电子、自动化、</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">X</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">射线探测等技术，花了几十万，成功解决了问题。每当生产线上有空香皂盒通过，两旁的探测器会检测到，并且驱动一只机械手把空皂盒推走。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">南方有个乡镇企业也买了同样的生产线，老板发现这个问题后大为发火，找了个小工来说你给我把这个搞定。小工果然想出了办法：他在生产线旁边放了台风扇猛吹，空皂盒自然会被吹走。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">突然想起了大宝的广告，有时候是我们自己把简单的事总复杂了吧。呵呵</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>]]></description><category><![CDATA[默认栏目]]></category><author><![CDATA[莎莎]]></author><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 08:56:54 CST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[外国朋友的中文课笔记]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net/viewdiary.74887.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">shall by too dull doll by too jack won,<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">dolphin long can Jim shall by too low,<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <SPAN lang=EN-US>shall by too when dull low, doll car low,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">dolphin long doll Ham Eason<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"more power!"<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　中文原文</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">:<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　小白兔到大白兔家玩，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　大灰狼看见小白兔了，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　小白兔闻到了，逃开了，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　大灰狼大喊一声</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">　　</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">莫跑！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><FONT face="Times New Roman">"<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">嘻嘻，原来外国人也这么学外语呀，那些“三克油喂二大妈吃”的学习技巧原来是世界通用的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 20pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: green"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></P>]]></description><category><![CDATA[默认栏目]]></category><author><![CDATA[莎莎]]></author><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 08:55:37 CST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[和女孩子们分享（四）]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net/viewdiary.70835.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 不得不说，朱德庸真的很了解女人，他的《粉红女郎》，万人迷、结婚狂、男人婆、哈妹，有没有现实中的你？如果要我选，我还是要选做个像结婚狂一样的女人，向往婚姻，执着的可以，认真的可以，最后也幸福的可以。</SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">76</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、学会承受痛苦。有些话，适合烂在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记。当经历过，你成长了，自己知道就好。很多改变，不需要你自己说，别人会看得到。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">77</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、家里备常用药，判断不了病情的时候，赶快去医院。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">78</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、不要等男人给你买礼物，想对自己好的时候，就自己去买。用起来会更舒心。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">79</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、不要在一个男人离开之后，企图用报复心理去生活。那只会让你的生活乱成一团。正确的做法是比从前生活的更好。并告诉他：你生活的很好，很快乐，让他不要担心。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">80 </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果要去逛街，记得穿舒适的鞋子。善待自己是表现在细节上的。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">81</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、有时间的话，去学瑜伽或者跆拳道。前者能让你放松身心，后者可以防身。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">82</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、家里和办公室分别空出一格抽屉放零食。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">83</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、隔期清理居室和身心。多余的物品送给有需要的人，心里的不痛快记得及时清除。别</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">让生活的忙碌和郁闷消磨了美丽容颜。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">84</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、没有丑女人，只有懒女人。不愿意用时间来装扮自己的女人，请不要对其他的美丽女人心生嫉妒不满。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">85</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、任何场合，保持应有的涵养。学会说谢谢、辛苦您、对不起。做错了事情要懂得道歉和改过。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">86</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、对于不想交往的人，不要应邀去吃饭喝咖啡，哪怕只是一块钱。没有后续发展和希望的交往，会浪费人家的钱和感情，这叫贪图享乐。贪慕虚荣的女子会让人瞧不起。如果实在碍于朋友介绍的情</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">面挪不开，记得</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">AA </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">制。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">87</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、对于你不想交往的人送来的礼物，原封不动寄回去。这是原则问题。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">88</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、有自己的人生观和价值观。出现问题可以忍让并寻求解决，但是触及原则，要保持自己原则。丧失原则会让你失去生活的目的。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">89</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、能不和人争吵尽量避免。一个发怒的人是很恐怖的，会因控制不了情绪变成疯子。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">90</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、购买物件可以讨价还价，但如果对方不小心多找了你钱，要退回去。不要因贪小失去了做人的意义。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">91</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、公共场所，给人行方便，特别是老人家。你也会老去，所以尊重老人就是尊重你以后的岁月。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">92 </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果没有人陪，学着一个人听音乐看书写文字。这是个好习惯。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">93 </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、口腔不要有异味。随身携带口气清新剂和补妆的物件。不要真的以为素面</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">朝天是一种美。香口胶吃过后要用纸包起来丢弃垃圾桶。明白随地吐痰是不文明行为，厉行禁止。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">94</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、之前你放弃的人或者放弃你的人，深夜打电话给你，挂掉之后关机。如果他守在窗口，记得拉紧窗帘。不是你狠心，而是任何经历伤痛之后的分手都会有裂痕，修补得再好也无法还原。不如就让它过去。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">95</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、爱那个爱你的人。如果只是你爱他，或者只是他爱你。趁早分开。女子不需要他人来假装疼爱，你也不需要假装疼爱某人。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">96</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果可以，和相爱的人牵手漫步。在找不到之前，学会自己欣赏风景。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">97 </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、对你不情愿做的事情大声说不。比如酒席上，轮到你喝酒，而你不善，大可以茶代酒</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，而非含恨饮醉。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">98</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、不管和谁有了矛盾和别扭，解决的时间不要超过</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> 24</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">小时。否则麻烦会更多。在可以接受的范围内，先道歉。让自己做做坏人不是件真的坏事。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">99</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、相信一见钟情的爱情，相信总有一个人会在岁月的拐角处静静的等你。只是你要擦亮眼睛，细心寻找。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">100</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、做个睿智的女子。学会从容面对生活。积极面对生活</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，生活定会如你所愿，如同明早，太阳依旧会如时升起。</SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></SPAN></B>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;&nbsp; 祝我们都成为有魅力的女人！</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>]]></description><category><![CDATA[默认栏目]]></category><author><![CDATA[莎莎]]></author><pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 15:06:49 CST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[和女孩子们分享（三）]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://shasha.blog.inhe.net/viewdiary.70833.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 23.6pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&nbsp;女人是个善于发泄的动物，越来越多的女人喜欢买面朝大海的房子，或者面对着空地的屋子，这样对着大自然吼叫，总不会惹得邻居去报警了。关于女孩子的一些小tips要继续了：</SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 23.6pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.96; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">51</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果决定离开一个人，行动要快一点，快刀斩乱麻；如果决定爱上一个人，时间拉长一点，看清楚是否适合你。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">52</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、找专人做色彩搭配建议。不要整天灰头灰脸，让自己灿烂点，别浪费青春和娇美身材。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">53</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的事。当然，偶尔傻一下有必要，人生不必时时聪明。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">54 </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果一个男人对你说他喜欢你，相信他。如果他说不再爱你，也相信他。任何时候，要告诉自己，一个不爱你的人离开，是幸运。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">55 </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、任何情况下，背后不说他人是非。如果一定要你说，说好话。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">56</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、买舒适的睡衣给自己，性感一点也无所谓。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">57</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、允许偶尔看肥皂剧，但不可成为依赖。允许偶尔披头散发，但要注重场合。允许偶尔骂脏话，但只限在老友面前或者独自一人时，记得说过后要忘掉那种畅快感。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">58</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、爱护你的手，它是你的第二张脸，但不是为此你不需要分担任何家务。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">59</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、爱父母，每周一次打电话或者抽时间共进晚餐。</SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">60 </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、不必为某个人选择销毁</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">ID</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">或者失踪。爱和不爱都将继续生活，结束就好好结束，何必苦了自己？</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">61</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、穿有质感的衣服，找有质量的男朋友。他不一定很有钱，但是一定要能让你有安全感和开心。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">62</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、居室要有鲜花，记得换水。如果要出差，清理之后再出门，不要回来面对一屋子的蚊子和虫子。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">63</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、有空时给自己点一袭喜欢的香薰，让香味充盈房间。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">愉悦。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">64 </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、想吃就吃。为了保持身材让自己饿着，那是世界上最愚蠢的美丽。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">65</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果有可能，尽量留长发。短发确实打理起来容易一些，但始终少了些女人味。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">66</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、心血来潮时，可以帮他洗衣服，买袜子，但是要适可而止。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">67</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果哪个男人说了让你难堪的话，原谅他。一个被原谅的男人最后会后悔失去一个像你这么宽容的女朋友。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">68</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、有一个最少两年内需要达成的目标。有目标的人生不</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">会太无聊。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">69</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果很不幸遇上了一个坏男人，请先微笑，然后鄙视他：你是我这辈子遇见的最龌龊最无能的男人。然后用最美的方式头也不要回的离开。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">70</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果男人以他忙为理由，不来探你的病情，不回你的邮件，不关心你的现状，不能和你承担生活的重负，无法给你勇气。勇敢一点，自动离开。没有什么比自己关心自己来得实在。而一个不爱你的人，你付出的再多，他再好，那也不过是浪费时间和精力。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">71</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、如果有曾经喜欢你但现在已经结婚的男子对你说：他忘记不了你，你始终是他最爱的人。请镇定的告诉他：像个男人一样生活。你这样做，既能保持冷静，又尊重和爱护了另外一个女人。这会让</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你更有魅力。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">72 </FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、常常去运动。做个安静的林妹妹固然很好，但是身体健康更重要。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">73</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、不要在路上无所顾忌的吃东西，有失淑女风范。（特别是啃烧烤等等不雅行为）</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">74</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、天真纯洁很好。但是不分场合的天真就会成为白痴行为。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman">75</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、一定要有几个男性朋友，没有非分之想，能在受到委屈时拿胸口当沙包给你锤，你也能帮他出主意追女朋友，并可以深夜里把他从床上揪起来去很远的地方接你。当然，首先你要让他女朋友或者太太认可你。否则不要试。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 25pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: green; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></o:p></SPAN></B></P>]]></description><category><![CDATA[默认栏目]]></category><author><![CDATA[莎莎]]></author><pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 15:01:44 CST</pubDate></item></channel></rss>